Discovery Class

Many families tell us that getting kids to share about their school day can feel like solving a mystery. The good news? Small shifts in how we ask questions can open the door to richer conversations.

Kids respond best to open-ended, specific prompts—especially those tied to a moment, feeling, or activity. Routines like sharing a “rose, thorn, and bud” at dinner or bedtime can also help kids reflect more easily.

A few quick tips:

• Skip “favorite.” It can feel like a test. Try “What was one thing…” instead.
  
• Start with “what” or “how.” These invite more than a yes/no or “I don’t know.”
  
• Ask one question at a time. Give space for them to think and share.
  
• Be playful. Silly questions—like “If your day was a food, what would it be?”—can spark great conversations.

Not sure where to start? Ask about topics like friends, recess, math, reading, projects, feelings, something that made them laugh, or something they worked hard on.

With a little intention (and maybe a little silliness), you can help your child open up and share the stories of their day.